“ I want my date to know that I’m completely focused on him when we go out together,” explains Carmen, who spends more than a little time thinking about the subject, by her own admission. “This is a topic I’ve given a lot of thought to. They say an escort’s life is one long party, going out on dates with fun people and seeing where the magic goes. Well, yes it is. But you get out of everything exactly what you put into it. If you are very focused on the task at hand, then you will get more out of it, and the person who is doing it with you will get that much more out of it too. That’s why when I go out with a guy, I make it clear that he’s the only person in the universe for the duration of that date. I don’t look at other people. I look at him. I don’t talk about other people. I want to talk about him. And I want him to open up, to explain to me who he is, to share with me his fantasies. In this way, I can be the best date he’s ever possibly had. I want to create that memory for him. I want him to realize, at some point while we are out together, that he’s never had an experience like this before, and he’s not sure how he’s going to manage to have it again. I want being with me to be the most fun he has ever experienced, maybe more fun than he thinks he can handle. I will take my date to the edge of euphoria and bring him back. That’s a journey that’s always worth taking.”
Carmen admits that one of the things she likes to do with her dates is enjoy being poolside. “Lounging half-naked in the sun and by the cool water,” she says, “is one of the most decadent pastimes there is. It’s all about your body, and about your body being seen. You’re there in the sun, baking, for anyone to look at you. You’re hot in both the physical sense and in terms of your appearance. And at any moment you could go for a dip in that sparkling blue water. I know some men who feel that way, too. But the more time you spend by the pool relaxing, or at the beach if you have access to a beach, the better off you are. People deserve to relax in the sun. I can’t think of anything I’d rather than do than lounge by the pool at some tropical resort with a drink in my hand that has lots of umbrellas in it. Can you? Is there anything better at all?”
